defination
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
okay.
let me first say.
that there will never be a definition to love, because.
its just like that
there are many different types of love, such as
1. infatuation
2. lust
3. forced love
4. puppy love
5. real true love
1.infatuation-
if you ask me my definition of infatuation is simple yet difficult to understand
well, if you like this person and you have never talked to him or her, to me this is called infatuation. well, this really describes what is happening to me.
well. say that i like this person. but i dun even know this person.
let's name this person "S"i like S but. I'm not sure whether S likes me or not.
how can i ask. if i never ever talked to S.
S hangs around with all the pretty girls and those who go clubbing.
look at me.
I'm the type that doesn't do all this.
i cannot just force myself to go clubbing. or to do stuff like that. can i.
and so. that will always be the problem between me and S.
we will never be able to talk let alone go out.
2.lust
this is well, number 2.
lust. hmm.
funny word if you think about it.
lust.lust.lust.
lust is basically, being sexually attracted to another person.
be it girl or guy.
sexually not meaning wanting to have sex with that person.
but just because this person is hot.
or sexy.
or cute.
3.forced love
forced love will be in arranged marriages.
or sometimes pressure from your friends.
such as becoming popular if you date this guy.
well forced love is seldom, you know why?
because its digusting.
forcing people to love someone. is a crime.
if you like this person. and your parents tell you that you can't be together with him
who cares? if you love him. go for it.
is your parents going to marry him?
unless he's some criminal
or a guy that influences you to do stupid things.
such as smoke. or take drugs.
but if nothing illegal, i think it should be okay.
4.puppy love
well this, known as puppy love, or also known as young love
this is caused by your hormones. if you know that this person is ugly
yet has a bad attitude. and on top of that you like him, it is really puppy love.
whether it is one way or two way. this is called puppy love.
you don't actually like his look or his personality
your blinded by your hormones.
raging to put it crudely.
5.real true love
this love is actually very hard to come by.
and this is the most important and the most heartwarming love there will ever be.
actually if you look around, you seldom see real true love.
my definition of real true love?
if you love a person, as long as their happy, you wouldn't care whether this person.
is with you.
or with someone esle.
because if you truly truly love this person
you would just want this person to be happy.
and let go.
by hanging on. your being.
selfish...
you will never know how much powerful real true love is.
until your stabbed right through the heart.
and being crushed by love is 10 times more painful.
then any dagger or any knife.
or.
any.
....death.....